One of the best memories to behold is having an imaginative picture of a perfect and unconditional love.
Love is a beautiful thing that leaves you with no perfect words to describe how you feel at every given time. It's a feeling that puts your heart on the loose, your imagination in the blues and your soul totally naked that you have no power of your own making you down for whatever once it concerns the person you feel this soft spot for.
Often times or most times as the case maybe,signs or feelings more intense than this are acted out in movies, written out in novels, told in stories. These observed, read, and told kind of love usually comes with a lot of mind-blowing revelations, abstract representations and unusual love scenario that leaves us startled and amazed. Gearing us with great hopes
of getting or finding for ourselves someday a love that has a perfect blend of what we've seen or a complete reciprocal of what we've digested,which for one reason or the other isn't a bad idea but one very common mistake we make which always lead to an error of interpretation, is the fact that we all comprehend, digest these projected stories with all element of perfection rubbed all over it, mind you this write up isn't meant to antagonize the efforts of people working tirelessly to give us a vivid description of what goes around in our love world or relationship settings but where the problem lies most of the time is our inability to make a selective consumption which is the applicable and non applicable to our daily lives and relationships. We are known for swallowing the hook, line and sinker in one gulp.
A couple of times we have real life stories represented in the media which absolutely still have a blend of falsified scenes to help it make the expected impact on its targeted audience and most other times the movies, novels, etc are typically a product of imagination, exaggerated story lines which obviously is meant to peak our understanding of some certain issues in our relationship not erase or complicate what we already have and know. What we see in the media from movies to musical videos,short films, etc can be typically described with any fruit we consumes, using mango as an example. When you take a mango fruit you eat the edible part afterwards you dispose the seed which absolutely isn't edible,you don't just get a mango fruit and swallow all of it. The error of interpretation is that most time we swallow up everything we see, read or hear from the media and act it all out in our relationships. We carry these sense of perfection about expecting our relationships to take such course that we've channeled our perceptions and comprehension towards a steady pursuit of perfection forgetting that perfection itself is an illusion.
One basic truth we all don't know is that two love stories are never the same. We might have same issues arise and solved same way but the application and projection are never the same. Your new partner can never act totally like your ex, your ex won't have those qualities you see in your new partner thats how the story goes. Seen a number of relationship hit the rocks because one partner wanted the other to act the character of a movie or wanted their relationship to unfold like the story line he/she watched in a soap opera. Love is an expressed emotion that comes with its rights and wrongs, ups and downs, good and bad. Where you have it right,you sour in peace and harmony and where you have it wrongs it teaches, you learn and keep the experience for a future reoccurrence. That is how you keep it going from peak to peak rather than the mix up we bear around thinking love is a software to be installed or some downloaded documents with properly drawn out pattern void of mistakes, faults and complications. Love is independently encoded in all of our personality same reason we all have different ways of professing and showing or giving love, there is no one way to loving. Thus wanting or desiring a replica of what you see in the media or other source of enlightenment might just be the breaking point to our so much cherished relationship as it might be doing more harm than good.
Let Love express itself rather than try to make it act what you think it should be. Love is simple and complex,straightforward and complicated but the end product is Joy,Happiness,Peace,Respect, Feeling of being Wanted,Cared for and Cherished every other day. Let's make our own love stories rather than let another's love story make us.
Micheal Peters.
For: Petersonconsult.
Petersonconsult2@gmail.com
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